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The loneliness that nobody mentions before you move — anyone else go through this?

Helga Larsen 🌱 Newcomer
4 Jun 2026, 20:45

We moved as a retired couple so we at least have each other, but I've been surprised by a kind of loneliness that has nothing to do with being physically alone — more the absence of a whole social fabric we didn't realise we relied on until it wasn't there. Curious if others have felt this, at any life stage.

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Jimmy ⭐ Helpful member Admin Premium
5 Jun 2026, 09:00

This comes up constantly across every kind of mover — retirees, families, young professionals, doesn't seem to discriminate by life stage. I think it's worth naming explicitly like you have, because so much advice focuses on the practical checklist and quietly skips over this part entirely. For what it's worth, this forum existing and people responding to threads like yours is itself part of rebuilding that fabric, even in a small way — glad you posted it.

Fatima Al-Rashid 💬 Contributor
5 Jun 2026, 15:20

Felt this hard too, even with a full house of family around me. It's a strange kind of lonely that having people physically nearby doesn't fully fix. Sending solidarity.