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Finding community as a digital nomad without feeling like you're always "passing through"

Sofia Mendes ⭐ Helpful member
28 May 2026, 14:00

I'm more settled than a classic "nomad" at this point but the mindset lingers — I keep half-holding back from investing in local friendships because some part of me still feels temporary, even though I'm not really moving on any time soon. Anyone else caught in this in-between feeling?

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Marco Rossi ⭐ Helpful member
31 May 2026, 16:06

It eased off for me once I stopped mentally hedging on friendships and just committed to acting like I was staying indefinitely, regardless of what my actual plans were. The half-holding-back was the real problem, not the moving itself.

Fatou Diallo ⭐ Helpful member
31 May 2026, 20:04

the in-between feeling is so real, still stuck in it myself

Lars Eriksson 💬 Contributor
2 Jun 2026, 11:48

Joined a recurring running club specifically because the commitment forces the investment — you can’t half-show-up to something weekly for long without it becoming real.

Diego Fernandez ⭐ Helpful member
5 Jun 2026, 00:11

Honestly mine never fully resolved, and I’ve made peace with that — lighter, more transient friendships that don’t assume permanence work fine for me. Not everyone needs the deep-roots version to feel okay.

Grace Kim 🏆 Community expert
10 Jun 2026, 22:10

Following, exact same in-between feeling here.

Pavel Novak ⭐ Helpful member
16 Jun 2026, 09:57

Does it help to just tell people directly that you’re not leaving soon, or does that feel like an odd thing to bring up unprompted?

Anna Kowalski ⭐ Helpful member
3 Jul 2026, 10:02

Not a nomad myself, but I imagine committing to even one recurring local class helps hugely with exactly the in-between feeling you're describing.

Rajesh Patel ⭐ Helpful member
28 Jul 2026, 07:57

Following, this in-between feeling is exactly where I am right now too.

Emma Thompson ⭐ Helpful member
28 Jul 2026, 07:58

Started hosting a small monthly dinner rather than waiting to be invited into other people's plans — flipped the dynamic entirely for me.

Kwame Mensah 🏆 Community expert
28 Jul 2026, 08:00

same energy, following