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Multi-pet households — did the move affect them differently from each other?

Diego Fernandez ⭐ Helpful member
15 May 2026, 11:00

We moved with a dog and two cats, and the difference in how each of them handled it has been fascinating and occasionally stressful in equal measure. The dog was anxious on travel day but settled almost immediately once we arrived. One cat adapted within a week. The other cat is still, three weeks in, hiding under furniture and only eating at night when she thinks nobody's watching.

I wasn't prepared for how differently three animals from the same household could react to the same move, and I'm not sure whether to just wait it out with the anxious cat or actively try something.

Anyone else moved with multiple pets and seen this kind of split reaction? Did the slower one eventually catch up on their own timeline, or did you find something that actually helped speed it along without stressing her out further?

4 replies

Sophie Dubois ⭐ Helpful member
17 May 2026, 14:13

Had a similar split with two cats. The slower one caught up eventually on her own timeline, no special intervention needed in the end.

Elena Popescu ⭐ Helpful member
18 May 2026, 09:56

Following, curious how this plays out for you, hope she comes around soon.

Carla Romano ⭐ Helpful member
18 May 2026, 20:06

Gave the anxious one her own separate space specifically, rather than trying to integrate her with the others too quickly. Seemed to help more than forcing it.

Priya Sharma ⭐ Helpful member
19 May 2026, 21:04

Did the more settled pets help calm the anxious one at all, or did it make no real difference either way?