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Wills and estate planning across two countries — did you get this sorted before or after moving?

Sofia Mendes ⭐ Helpful member
14 Jun 2026, 10:00

A friend's parent passed away recently while living abroad and the family spent months untangling which country's inheritance rules actually applied, which was a genuinely awful thing to be dealing with on top of grief. It's pushed us to finally sort our own affairs properly rather than assuming our old will still covers everything.

We're now stuck on some basics: whether we need entirely separate wills for assets in each country or one that covers everything, how the two legal systems interact if they disagree, and whether this is really a job for a specialist or something a general solicitor can handle competently.

Did you sort this before moving, after, or are you (like us until recently) still putting it off? Would love to hear how others approached it, especially anyone who found a specific type of advisor worth the cost.

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Linda Svensson ⭐ Helpful member
14 Jun 2026, 11:31

Got a specialist cross-border advisor rather than a general solicitor. Worth the extra cost purely for the peace of mind alone.

Paolo Bianchi ⭐ Helpful member
15 Jun 2026, 22:17

Still putting this off too, this thread is a good nudge.

Helga Larsen ⭐ Helpful member
16 Jun 2026, 17:10

Ended up needing two separate wills that reference each other carefully — apparently a fairly common approach, though I’m obviously not a lawyer myself.

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Chris Bennett ⭐ Helpful member
27 Jun 2026, 20:07

Did anyone find their home-country will already covered assets abroad, or is that basically never the case in practice?

Ben Carter ⭐ Helpful member
1 Aug 2026, 18:59

Chris, to your question about whether a home-country will covers assets abroad: in our case it technically did, and it would still have been a mess. Our solicitor in England told us the will was valid, but the notary in Portugal explained, very patiently, that getting a foreign will recognised and acted on here involves translations, certifications and a lot of time, all while the family is grieving.

So we did what Helga described: a separate Portuguese will for the house here, drafted by a local notary, and our English will for everything in the UK, each one carefully referring to the other so that neither accidentally cancels the other. The notary also explained how the local inheritance rules would apply to us, which was not what I'd assumed, and that alone was worth the appointment.

It cost a fraction of what I'd feared, took two appointments, and the main feeling afterwards was relief. Our children know where both documents are. If you're putting it off like we were, the relief is worth more than the fee.

Rajesh Patel 🏆 Community expert
3 Aug 2026, 11:21

Our wills are on this autumn's list because of this thread.

Jimmy 🏆 Community expert Admin Premium
4 Aug 2026, 16:55

Ben's experience matches the general advice: a will that is valid in one country can still be slow and complicated to use in another, and which country's inheritance rules apply depends on your nationality, your residence and any choice you make in the will itself. The Estate section of each country guide covers the basics, for example the Estate section for Spain, but this is a clear case for a qualified notary or cross-border lawyer, as several people here have said.

Linda Svensson ⭐ Helpful member
6 Aug 2026, 19:25

Reading this before our move has changed our plan. We were going to "sort it out once we're settled", and I can see now that settled never quite arrives. We've booked an appointment with a lawyer in Sweden who works with Spanish colleagues, so both wills are written together rather than months apart.

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Chris Bennett ⭐ Helpful member
7 Aug 2026, 10:39

Thank you, Ben, that answers my question completely and a little alarmingly.